Family Background Questionnaire
Use the following questionnaire to reflect on your childhood. Can you identify what conditions might have contributed to your current problem with anxiety?
| 1. | Did either of your parents suffer from panic attacks or phobias | |||
| 2. | Did you have a brother, sister, grandparent or other relative who had panic attacks or phobias | |||
| 3. | Did either of your parents seem excessively prone to worry? | |||
| 4. | Did either of your parents seem overly concerned about potential dangers that could befall you or other family members? | |||
| 5. | Did your parents encourage exploration of the outside world or did they cultivate an attitude of caution, suspicion or distrust? | |||
| 6. | Do you feel that your parents were overly critical or demanding of you? If so, how did you feel in response to this critism? | |||
| • Put down or diminished | • Ashamed or guilty | |||
| • Hurt or rejected | • Angry or rebellious | |||
| 7. | As a child, did you feel free to express your feelings and impulses? How were feelings dealt with in your family? | |||
| • Openly expressed | • Punished | • Denied | ||
| 8. | Was it ok for you to cry? How did your parents respond when you cried? | |||
| 9. | Was it ok to express anger? How did your parents respond when you got angry? | |||
| 10. | What was your role in the family? How werer you perceived relative to other children in the family? | |||
| 11. | Do you feel that you grew up feeling insecure? Which of the following might have contributed to your insecurity? | |||
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• Excessive criticism by your parents • Excessive punishment • Your parents made you feel ashamed • Your parents made you feel guilty • Your parents neglected you • One or both parents abandoned you through death or divorce • Physical Abuse • Sexual abuse • Parental alcoholism |
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| 12. | If you grew up insecure, how did you respond to your feelings of insecurity? | |||
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• By becoming very dependant on your family (did you have trouble
leaving home?) • By becoming very independant on your family (Did you leave home early?) • By becoming angry or rebellious? |
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